One of Those Kind of Days

Today at breakfast when I discovered that my egg was very soft, I broke off the top part of the shell, put it in the microwave, checked it after 30 seconds, and set the timer for another 30 seconds. Moments later, it exploded, creating quite a mess. “Oh, it’s going to be one of those kind of days,” I thought—one of days when the illusion that I am in control literally blows up in my face!

We all prefer days when everything unfolds according to our liking—perfectly cooked eggs, pleasant weather conditions, productivity at work, engaging prayer time, enjoyable conversations with friends, our favorite foods at dinner, and time with a good book, for example. However, the exploding egg, the layer of ice on the car, the constant interruptions, the dryness of prayer, testy dining companions, the smell and taste of cooked liver, and lack of time to read our favorite new book end up being more effective teachers in helping us move beyond our own desires into acceptance of what each day brings.

Today I was called to forgive reality for being what it is: eggs explode in the microwave when their yolks are not pierced, and I did not know that yolks need to be pierced before cooking eggs in the microwave. Now that my illusion of being in control has been shattered, I can surrender to the mystery of whatever else this day will present to me. Although cleaning egg out of the microwave is not my favorite way to start the day, it was ultimately a gift to have my energy directed into curiosity and acceptance instead of the attempt to bend the universe to my will!

Directed by the Spirit

In the October 2018 issue of Give Us This Day, Professor Florence Gillman notes, “…believers should understand that their fundamental relationship with Christ Jesus, which would lead to inheriting the kingdom, is a life where one lives in and is directed by the Spirit.” At the October 2018 Senate meeting at the Mount, Dr. Edward Mulholland offered a beautiful example of what can happen when we allow ourselves to be directed by the Spirit.

Dr. Mulholland came across a video about refugees who were fleeing from Syria to the Greek island of Lesbos and felt called to spend his six-week summer break working in one of the camps there. By distributing food and clothing, Dr. Mulholland and other volunteers from around the world acknowledged the plight of the traumatized refugees and attempted to meet some of their basic needs. This response to direction by the Spirit led the volunteers and refugees to take their place in the kingdom of God, which is marked by compassion, dignity, and easing of suffering through shared relationships. In relating the story of his trip to us at the Mount, Dr. Mulholland helped us walk a while in the sandals of the refugees, widening the circle of the kingdom we are all called to inherit.

Living in the Spirit requires an openness to being upended, for that is a consequence of the dying to self that comes with having a fundamental relationship with Christ. We don’t know from day to day what direction the Spirit might give us, which can be disconcerting, but it also helps us stay awake to ways we can participate in the life of God, whom we seek.

The Glory of Humility

The book of Sirach has much wisdom to share, including this gem: “For great is the power of God; by the humble he is glorified” (Sirach 3:20). The following poem is a meditation on this insight.

Glory

We marvel at magnificent mountains,

swelling seas, exploding supernovas,

and lofty sequoias

We venerate extraordinary athletes,

                                                             towering intellects, multimillionaires,

                                                             and powerful politicians

                                                            We supersize our servings, our square

                                                            footage, our interior cabin space,

                                                            and our egos

                                                            Yet God the Creator chooses to dwell

                                                            in the infinitesimal part of the atom

                                                            that is not empty space

                                                            The Holy One came to us as an infant,

                                                            chose to be a servant, and said

                                                            the last shall be first

                                                            Achieving humility is much more

                                                            difficult than amassing wealth,

                                                            power, and fame

                                                            And so it is the humble who earn

                                                            a place among the heavenly host,

                                                            singing an eternal Alleluia

Becoming Love's Apprentice

In a poem entitled A Night in Ireland, Anne Porter wrote about a dream in which she stumbled across the door to heaven and was about to knock, whereupon:

Someone spoke to me

I think it was an angel

He said You’ve come too soon

Go back into the towns

Live there as love’s apprentice

And God will give you his kingdom

So that’s why we’re here on earth—to be love’s apprentice! Apprentices bind themselves to a skilled worker to learn a trade, art, or calling through practical experience. Thus, if we are called to learn the art of love, we must make a covenant with a skilled worker and practice, practice, practice.

Christians make their apprenticeship covenant with the greatest lover of all, Jesus, who taught us compassion through the story of the Good Samaritan, forgiveness through the parable of the Prodigal Son, service by washing the feet of his disciples, and dying to self through obedience to his own call to share God’s love with the world.

It is our willingness to be love’s apprentice that opens the door of God’s kingdom to us. May we meet there at the threshold to new life!

Bequeathing Our Lived Wisdom

The book of Job, a lengthy exploration of suffering and our relationship with God, concludes with this simple verse: “Then Job died, old and full of years.”

What are the implications of being “full of years” when we die? It sseems like the longer we live, the more we forget; for example, do you remember what did you did to celebrate your 15th birthday, let alone what you had for lunch a  week ago today? Although many of the specifics of our life fade over time, it is also true that the stories of all those years is contained in our body’s cellular memory, often appearing as scars, graying hair, laugh lines, and an emotional response to certain aromas.

Ah, but what about when the container of our body dies? As it turns out, the imprint of our life remains through our interactions with the earth and with other beings. The life of St. Benedict is a prime example; more than 1500 years after his death, many religious and oblates throughout the world are living containers of his wisdom as we seek to live according to the rule he left us.

Although most of us don’t leave a written contribution to the world’s wisdom literature, we do leave behind the lived wisdom of being “full of years.” What we say and do matters. Every day we can choose to renew our commitment to listen, to serve, and to observe God’s wonders, so we can leave a legacy of love and joy in the world’s repository of wisdom for those who follow us and with whom we are already connected in the body of Christ.

Let Your Heart Be Your Guide

All of us have a primary world view about human nature (humans are intrinsically good or evil), God’s nature (God judges/punishes or God loves/forgives), and the purpose of life (to be successful or to love and be loved). We often are unaware of our own world view, even though it directs our feelings, thoughts and actions every day.

Our world view would appear to stem from our mind/brain, but research is showing that the heart controls the brain much more than previously thought. For example, thanks to the 40,000 sensory neurons in the heart, the heart relays more information to the brain on a daily basis than vice versa. As noted by Joel Kahn, MD, the neurons within the heart enable the heart to learn, remember, and make decisions independent of the brain's cerebral cortex. Furthermore, the heart emits an electrical field 60 times greater in amplitude than the activity in the brain and an electromagnetic field 5,000 times stronger than that of the brain. What would it mean if our world view came from our heart rather than our head?

If we want our world view to be in sync with that of Jesus—which, after all, is our goal as Christians—then we need to pray through the heart rather than through the head. The following prayer offered by Fr. Ed Hays in Prayers for a Planetary Pilgrim can be our guide: “Broaden the boundaries of my heart that it may encompass more than it did yesterday.” Whereas in the medical world an enlarged heart is a danger sign, spiritually it is a sign of an expansive world view in which love and compassion guide our choices. As it turns out, "Let your heart be your guide" is wise advice indeed!

Kaleidoscopic Spirituality

With life constantly changing within us and around us, the world feels like a very complex place. We can choose whether to respond to that complexity with apprehension, irritation, and bewilderment or with curiosity, surrender, and wonder.

The world God created is somewhat like a kaleidoscope. We all have our own particular shape and color that do not change, but we are also in constant movement, coming together and moving away from other parts of creation in a flowing tapestry. Because we are one small piece of the picture, we generally can’t grasp the beauty of the image we are helping to create. Thus we can choose to surrender to the dance, trusting that wherever we find ourselves each moment is good and contributes to the beauty of the whole, or we can create a blockage by refusing to move from one particular place, forcing life to flow around us instead of through us.

Knowing we are part of a kaleidoscopic universe instills a sense of gratitude for each person, animal, plant, and element we encounter, for we all have a place in God’s creation and contribute to the unfolding of life, in all its complexity. We will never fully understand the hows and whys of the universe, but we shouldn’t let that keep us from enjoying and taking our rightful place among its many wonders.