Friday, November 4, 2016

Getting One's Goat and Holding One's Tongue


Baseball fans had reason to rejoice when the 71-year old curse placed on the Chicago Cubs by William Sianis was finally broken on November 2, 2016, after the Cubs won Game 7 of the World Series to become champions for the first time since 1908.

As curses go, the one uttered by Sianis was relatively mild; upon being told that he would have to remove his pet goat, Murphy, from Wrigley Field because the goat’s odor was offending other fans, Sianis allegedly declared, "Them Cubs, they ain't gonna win no more." Compare that to some of the curses listed in Psalm 109: “And may he be clothed with cursing as with a robe; may it penetrate into his entrails like water and like oil into his bones; may it be for him like a garment which covers him, like a girdle which is always about him.”

I gather that William Sianis tried himself tried to undo his famous curse, and his son did as well, but once spoken, words take on a life of their own. Benedict knew this well, for as he said in the Rule, monks are to “restrain their tongue” and “be not noisy in their speech.” At this time of year, when we are weary of hearing politicians be “noisy in their speech,” it’s easy to point fingers at others, but most of us have experienced times when we wish we had restrained our tongues. Just yesterday in a meeting I made some blunt comments and now wish I had been gentler in my speech. Opportunities to learn to guard our tongues are always with us.

William Sianis later regretted that he allowed others to “get his goat,” so to speak. His story is a reminder to watch over our thoughts so that, as Fr. Edward Hays noted in A Pilgrim’s Almanac, the “piece of mind” we give others leads to “peace of mind” for all of us. 

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